ABOUT TIR
TIR is a rapid method of effectively reducing traumatic stress from emotionally and, or physically painful events in the past.
What is TIR?
While resembling therapy or counseling in some ways, TIR is not considered to be therapy. It is presented as a form of education, tracing back the roots of the word "educate" which stem from definitions related to "drawing knowledge from within oneself."
In this modality, the practitioner is referred to as a facilitator and the client is referred to as a viewer, to mean a person who views the makeup of their inner world.
Some key components of this methodology include:
Viewing is a form of integrative learning to bring together two or more things (our story) to form, create, or unite with something else (new awareness).
This work requires 2 people working together: A viewer (client) and a facilitator (practitioner).
The client chooses what to focus on, “Client is the expert on their life”.
The facilitator chooses the technique that will be used. “Facilitator is the expert on the techniques”.
A clients is never pushed or contradicted.
A facilitator refrains from interpretation.
A facilitator remains calm, present, and appropriate in response to what the client says.
The process of viewing uncovers emotional "charge" which the client gradually releases.
A client arrives at their own conclusions.
Sessions are taken to end points, at which time the viewer feels some aspect of the issue that was being addressed has been released or transformed to a degree which the viewer feels better about it.
Freud based his work on the theory that in order to recover from past traumas, it is necessary to achieve a full anamnesis (recovery of lost memory). He never adequately explained why anamnesis was necessary; however. Dr. Gerbode proposed the following person-centered explanation:
A trauma, by definition, is an incident that is so painful, emotionally or physically, that one tends to flinch away from it, not to let oneself be aware of it, or in Freud’s terms, to repress it. It is the flinch and not the “objective” description of the incident that makes it a trauma. Hence, an event that is challenging and exciting for one individual may be traumatic for another. The one for whom it is a mere challenge is able to “stay with it” and master it; the one who experiences it as a trauma is not.
From a person-centered viewpoint, an intention is simply the most proximal, the most subjective part of an activity. If I intend to win a race, from that intention flows all the means I use to win it: the various movements of my muscles, leading to forward movement of my body, and ultimately to pulling ahead of the other racers, and so on. In other words, the intention is the beginning of the action, and the consequences flow outward to become manifest physically. An activity continues so long, and only so long, as the corresponding intention exists. That means that for each ongoing intention, there is an activity (at least a mental one) that continues as part of the here and now.
In fact, people subjectively define time in terms of the activity they are engaged in. Objectively, time is a featureless continuum. But subjectively, time is divided up into chunks, “periods” of time. For every given activity (and for every given intention) there is a corresponding period of time, and so long as you have an intention, you remain in the period of time defined by that intention (and activity). Holding onto an intention holds you in the period of time that commenced with the formulation of that intention. There are only two ways of ending an intention:
Fulfilling the intention, whereupon it ends spontaneously. You can't keep intending to win a race after you have won it.
Unmaking it. Even if you don’t fulfill an intention, you can decide not to have that intention anymore, and cause it to end. This, however, requires a conscious decision. You have to be aware of the intention and why you formed it.
But what if the intention is buried in the middle of a repressed trauma? In this case, neither condition 1. nor 2. above can be satisfied, and the intention persists indefinitely. The person remains in the period of time defined by that intention; that is, the person remains in the traumatic incident! The incident floats on as part of the present and is easily triggered, that is the person is easily reminded of it, consciously or unconsciously.
The only way a person can exit from that period of time (and from the intentions, feelings, and behaviors engendered by the trauma) is by confronting the incident, whereupon one can see:
What intentions were formulated at the time of the incident.
Why they were formulated at that time.
Then, and only then, can one satisfy condition 2, above for ending an intention, and can one let go of the intention. Without a thorough anamnesis, condition 2 cannot be satisfied.
Addressing Known Traumatic Incidents
Basic TIR is used to address incidents we know have happened to us: a car accident, the painful end of a relationship, a medical procedure, the loss of a loved one, a combat-related incident, the loss of a job or a failure in business or in school, receiving a frightening diagnosis, etc. In Basic TIR, we work on a past traumatic incident until all of the force, pain, and resistance is gone, we reach an end point. Sometimes, by similarity in content, there will be an earlier incident that is hooked into the first one we started to address. Such earlier incidents may be something we haven’t thought of in years. If an incident comes up, we address it in the same way until an end point is reached.